It's been two days since I split up with my ex, when I say split up I mean...literally threatened police action if he or any of his family members contact me.
ok seems severe and I do miss him, prob cos it was the first time I'd been in a relationship for ages but honestly he was nuts! ok he showed he cared about me but he became totally obbsessed by me and it wasn't healthy!!
usually i would receive up to 150 texts a day + calls any hour of the day. He had began to come into the bar i worked in 3-4 times a day getting stressed if I didn't talk to him at the time. fair enough you can discuss (row) and resolve these issues!! but as I got to know him I didn't like the 'real person' he was and then he turned into a total fruit loop...getting his mum to ring me in the early hours telling me not to split up with him...WTF!!??
Ok it's not like I'm a high and mighty snob or anything but when you first meet someone they are just blank and you gradually get to know who they are. He wasnt gods gift then neither am I the only rule i have is personal hygiene. If someone doesn't look afterthemselves then I don't want to know!! I mean how hard is it to have a regular wash and wear clean clothes!!
Anyway he seemed ok, then I went round his flat, the first time it was a mess but i commented on this and the next time I went round it was pretty clean for a guy that lives alone so it seemed ok and it stayed clean. then he got susspended from work with another family member who he worked with and i realised he was a bit shifty. After this he started to get really scruffy dress wise and sometimes when he met me after i finished work he would have really smelly old shoes on and smelt of bo. When he started to talk random bullshit on top of all that it was enough. then he began to try and scrounge money from my well that was the biscuit!!
When I tried to finish it giving all the above reasons, he said he was depressed due to work situation as hadn't done anything (I have seen proof that he did) and then came the stalking resulting in calls from his mum in the early hours of Sun resulting in me telling her to fuck off and threatening police action on him, his family etc if any of them tried to contact me again, which they havn't.
I heard from his friend he has been sacked and is really deppressed about everything, to be perfectly honest I am glad i have stopped getting a hundred+ texts and relieved not to see him proping up the bar at work. so in actual fact, no I don't think i miss him at all!!